Saturday, 30 August 2008

Understanding one's thoughts

Today I was looking for "in a rush" song on Youtube. I found one video containing some beautiful quotes about love. The words were really catchy. So I went all the way googling, then pasting those quotes here. For a while... I try to figure out, not every person can express feeling in words... and it turns into a smile when I remember one idiom: actions speak louder than words :). Yeah, understanding one's thoughts might be not that easy.


When words unveil what the universe has been hiding...
When words help decoding expectations...
When words simplify phenomenons...
They leave the rest to imagination.
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It is a mystery why we fall in love.
It is a mystery how it happens.
It is a mystery when it comes.
It is a mystery why some love grows.
It is a mystery why some love fails.

You can analyze this mystery and look for reasons and causes but you will never do anymore than take the life out of experience.

Just as life itself is more than the sum of the bones and muscles and electrical impulses in the body, love is more than the sum of the interests and attractions and commonalities that two people share. And just as life itself is a gift that comes and goes in its own time, so too, the coming of love must be taken as an unfathomable gift that cannot be questioned in its ways.

Sometimes, hopefully at least once in your life the gift of love will come to you in full flower and you will take hold of it and celebrate it in all inexpressible beauty. This is a dream we all share. More often it will come and take hold of you, celebrate you for a moment, then move on.

When this happens to young people, they too often try to grasp the love and hold it to them, refusing to see that it is a gift that is freely given and a gift that just as freely moves away. When they fall out of love, or the person they love feels that the spirit of love leaving, they try desperately to reclaim the love that is lost rather than accepting the gift for what it was, then move on.

They want answers when there are no answers. They want to know what is wrong in them that makes the other person no longer love them, or they try to get their lover to change, thinking that if some small things were different, love would bloom again. They blame their circumstances and say that if they go far away and start a new life together, their love will grow. They try anything to give meaning to what has happened but there is no meaning beyond the love itself, and until they accept its own mysterious ways, they live in a sea mystery.

You need to know this about love, and accept it.
You need to treat what it brings you with kindness.
If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself.
There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.
If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love him, feel honored that love came and called at you, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain. How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different. If you fall in love with another, and he falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame. Let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.

Remember that you don't choose love, love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the ways it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in anyway you can.

This is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so love without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.

The first blush of love is filled to overflowing but as their love cools they revert to seeing their love as a need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love. They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.

Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own seasons and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into staying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do. Love has been and always will be a mystery. Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.


- Big M -



Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being in love which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two.

- Captain Corelli's Mandolin -



The most wonderful of all things in life is the discovery of another human being with whom one's relationship has a growing depth, beauty and joy as the years increase. This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is a most marvellous thing; it cannot be found by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it. It is a sort of divine accident, and the most wonderful of all things in life.

- Sir Hugh Walpole (1884-1941) -



Love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person. Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith is also of little love.


- Erich Fromm quotes (1900-1980) -



You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.

- Sam Keen -



Love is the emblem of eternity: it confounds all notion of time: effaces all memory of a beginning, all fear of an end.

- Madame de Stael -



Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.

- Bruce Lee -



Love is as much of an object as an obsession, everybody wants it, everybody seeks it, but few ever achieve it, those who do will cherish it, be lost in it, and among all, never... never forget it.

- Curtis Judalet -



Love feels no burden, thinks nothing of trouble, attempts what is above its strength, pleads no excuse of impossibility; for it thinks all things lawful for itself, and all things possible.

- Thomas Kempis -



Love feels no burden, regards no labors, strives toward more than it attains, argues not of impossibility, since it believes that it may and can do all things. Therefore it avails for all things, and fulfils and accomplishes much where one not a lover falls and lies helpless.

- Thomas a Kempis (1380-1471) -



Love doesn't just sit there like a stone; it has to be made, like bread, remade all the time, made new.

- Ursula K. LeGuin -



Love is a hidden fire, A pleasant sore, A delicious poison, A delectable pain, An agreeable torment, A sweet and throbbing wound, A gentle death.

- Fernando de Pujas -



Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.

- Antoine de Saint-Exupery (1900-1944) -



Love is a symbol of eternity. It wipes out all sense of time, destroying all memory of a beginning and all fear of an end.

- Madame de Stael -



Love is a sweet tyranny, because the lover endureth his torment willingly.

- Proverb -



Love never reasons, but profusely gives; gives, like a thoughtless prodigal, its all, and trembles then lest it has done too little.

- Hannah More -



Love withers under constraints: its very essence is liberty: it is compatible neither with obedience, jealousy, nor fear: it is there most pure, perfect, and unlimited where its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve.

- Percy Bysshe Shelley, Queen Mab, 1813 -



True love is like a ghost; everyone talks of it, but few have met it face to face.

- La Rochefoucald -



Btw, kebanyakan baca quote tentang love malah jadi pusing, heuheuheu. Oya, gambar di atas diambil dari web. Anyway, to those who prepare their wedding... tetap semangat!!! ... dan tak lupa, omedetto... congratulation for finding your soulmate. Do'akan kami yang masih pada jomblo ini segera menyusul. Hehehehe... nyusul naon deuih... mrgreen. Nu jelas mah... dari info yang bertebaran, tampaknya bakal banyak nama tergrafier di piala, hehehehe. Semoga barokah. Amin.




There is enough room to take time
To rethink everything
To really interpret each feeling
To find the true path
To understand the real you
To find the real us
Although somehow...
While the universe becomes a bit colder...
And somewhat quieter...
I find myself hoping,
Wishing the time moving a lot more quickly
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Ki o tsukete kudasai !

Tuesday, 26 August 2008

Kontemplasi

“ Sesungguhnya di dalam tubuh itu ada segumpal darah.
Jika ia baik, maka seluruh tubuh akan baik pula,
dan jika ia rusak, rusak pula seluruh tubuh.
Ketahuilah, segumpal darah itu adalah hati. “
(Diriwayatkan Al-Bukhary, Muslim, dan lain-lain)



Ramadhan sebentar lagi tiba, tinggal menghitung hari
Orang-orang mulai hiruk pikuk menyambut bulan penuh rahmat
Mempersiapkan fisik, materi
Menyusun target, mengukir harapan


Targetan...
Hmm...
Kalau mau berteori panjang lebar, beridealis ke sana ke mari
Banyak sekali targetan yang ingin dicapai
Banyak
Hanya saja...
Ghirah itu... tak kunjung terkumpul
Bukan semangat yang membumbung
Melainkan kehampaan yang tak beralasan


Menyambut Ramadhan... menghitung mundur...
Keinginan memakmurkan bulan suci ini begitu besar
Namun tak ada percikan semangat yang menyala
Datar saja
Datar


"Jangan sampai melewatkan Ramadhan...
Rugi serugi-ruginya, jika Ramadhan dilewatkan begitu saja"
....
Jika sekarang pun ada air mata terjatuh
Mungkin itu adalah air mata kesedihan
Meratapi irama hidup yang monoton
Bahagia, namun datar


Ya Allah...
Hidupkanlah hati ini
Hidupkanlah jiwa ini
Izinkanlah hambaMu ini...
memasuki Ramadhan-Mu...
dengan hati yang bersih
dengan jiwa yang tenang
Berikanlah kekuatan
untuk meng-azzamkan diri
mencari keridhaan-Mu

Bismillaahirrahmaanirrahiim...

Saturday, 23 August 2008

Wünsche über alles

"Every great dream begins with a dreamer.
Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience,
and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world."
-Harriet Tubman-


"I prefer to be a dreamer among the humblest,
with visions to be realized,
than lord among those without dreams and desires"
-Kahlil Gibran-


"Yes, you can be a dreamer and a doer too,
if you will remove one word from your vocabulary: impossible"
-Robert H. Schuller-


"Only the dreamer shall understand realities,
though in truth his dreaming must be not out of proportion to his waking"
-Margaret Fuller-



Minna San... o genki desu ka? hi
Sashiburi dana...


Kemaren akhirnya berlibuuuuur, kabur dari rutinitas, kabur dari semua penat gak jelas, yah...pokona mah refreshing we lah, lieur.... stress

Sekarang juga masih lieur ketang 39
pusing we terus si Eneng teh...

capedeh

Review singkat, jalan-jalan menjelajah Jerman selama tujuh hari larilari ,,, bermodalkan interrail Globalpass. Selama perjalanan, Rachma seringnya tidur dan merasa ngantuk, hahahahah, udah gitu makan banyak pisan deuih, hihih, jalan jauh emang perlu banyak energi mrgreen. Lagian, sayah sangat tau, segimanapun banyaknya makan, jatah berat badan tetep 40 kilo. Mana ini teh dah mu winter bentar lagi... kan butuh inersia tinggi biar gak kebawa terbang ma anginnya Belanda beku .


Rute yang dilalui adalah Groningen-Hannover-Berlin-Potsdam-Hamburg-Munich-Salzburg-Munich-Bremen-Groningen. Ampe bosen pokokna nyobain kereta cepatnya Jerman, IC, ICE, EC,,,,CNL. Masih ada deng yang belum kesampaian, naik sprinter. Kalo pake tiket normal, jalan-jalan di Jerman merusak keseimbangan rekening razz, sekali jalan bisa 80-150 euro... waks, males banget kan, mana ini tuh bolak-balik pula. Jadi tiket interrail, ato eurrail buat nonresiden itu worth banget.


Alasan jalan-jalan... hmm... yang jelas sih karena sedang mumet, banyak mikirin hal gak penting kayaknya, jadi cape teu jelas ziiing . Alasan kedua, yah... jatah liburkuwh pan sekitar 45 hari kerja per tahun [di luar libur nasional], sayang kalo gak dipake, ini baru kepake tujuh hari pun ... bingung da jatah liburnya masih banyak, heuheu. Kalo dulu mah masih semangat kerja jam 7 pagi ampe jam 10 malem, sekarang mah... setelah merasakan tepar dan metabolisme tubuh yang kacau karena overwork, jadi mulai mem-Belanda, kerja sesuai jam kerja, rugi kalo kerja di luar jam kerja, gak ada gaji lembur sih cool . Yang namanya kabur, tentu saja tidak menyelesaikan masalah... tapi paling tidak,,, ya,,, refreshing lah, ngaruh, walo dikit.


Rachma gak akan bahas banyak tentang liburannya, soalnya... hmmm apa ya, gi gak mood, heheh, maaf. Pas jalan-jalannya enjoy banget, sampe lupa kalo tanggal 17 tuh hari kemerdekaan. Yah.. gimana ya, sebelum jalan-jalan sih inget "waah, ntar ngerayain HUT RI di Jerman". Tapi pas lagi di Jerman nya mah gak keingetan... apabolehbuat .
Ada satu lagi reminder yang saaaangat Rachma suka, persiapan Ramadhan Neng. Do I get lost too far? ampe gak ngeh kalo Ramadhan tuh dah deket banget.... ngaistanah


Yang mu Rachma tulis kali ini adalah wish list, ato apa ya... ya pokona mah sejenis eta we lah. Lagi pengen nulis buat ngisi waktu, tapi gak mau mikir yang berat-berat biggrin. Jadi, mari berkhayal, wishing something. Berkhayal mah gratis, jadi gak rugi. Kalo ada yang protes berkhayal itu gak guna dan buang-buang waktu...
tutupkuping ....
Yah terserah lah mu berpendapat gitu juga, sok sok wae. Lagian teu ngaruh, omongan situ gak akan ujug-ujug mengubah hidup Rachma dalam satu blink. How can you reach something if you don't even dare to dream about it? [mode skeptis ON].

Day dreaming starts... along with some beautiful background musics... siul



flute ~~~~~~~~~~~ "Ask it, and you shall receive..." ~~~~~~~~~~~ harpa


1. Nikon D300

Walopun yang terbaru adalah Nikon D700, tetep ajeh berkhayal juga mesti tau diri, hehehe. Kisaran harga D300 bersama lensa AF 28-300 mm F/3.5-6.3 XR, harga berkisar 1500-1800 euro. Kameranya aja cuman 1000an euro, lensanya yang mahal razz. Tapi dibanding D700 yang harganye 2500 euro ituh, huhuhu jauh pisan. Kalo buat hobi mah D300 lebih dari cukup kayaknya. Oya, kalo ada yang komen masalah harga... hmm... Rachma orangnya ngutamain kualitas, mending gak punya aja daripada menuh-menuhin kamar teu jelas. Yah, berharap sajah ada aanbieding ato op=op, yang kalo nge-cut harga suka gak kira-kira. Kalo dah beli kan jadi sakit hati tah kalo liat harganya turun banget, hehehehe. Ini anggaran tahun depan, lamun masih mood beli kamera SLR. Rachma nyadar ko... mood beli-beli barang gini suka tiba-tiba ilang gak jelas, hehehehe.


2. Macbook pro

Dari dulu ngidam produknya Apple, heuheuheu. Harga berkisar 1800-2500 euro, jadi ini mah buat anggaran tahun depan juga. Pulang heula ka rumah ah, soalnya Rachma kan mesti mikir juga, ini laptop lama mu dikemanain. Sapatau di rumah ada yang mau nampung. Kalo sama adik Rachma yang cewek sih kemungkinan mau pake laptop ini, tapi adik Rachma yang cowok pasti mintanya laptop baru. Hayah, susah emang cowok tuh, banyak maunya.... Kalo Rachma lagi di rumah, dia pasti protes-protes... " Teteh, diem! Tong ngobrol wae... lieur...lieur... pan Ujang keur belajar ieu teh, gandeng Teteh mah". Ngiksss, walo pengen ketawa karena kaget, biasanya ya Rachma diem juga akhirnya mrgreen. Rachma balesnya kalo dia ada maunya, mesti pake password, kaya gini:

my brother (MB): Teteh, hoyong HP...
me: Naon, hoyong HP??? Ih, meni gujih anak SMP jaman ayeuna mah, pengen HP-HP segala...
MB: Pan Ujang sakedap deui ka SMA... isin atuh teu gaduh HP mah. Rerencangan Ujang mah pada gaduheun HP.
me: Terus naon hubungannana?
MB: Kamari ge aya tugas ngadadak, Ujang teu terang, da teu di-sms ku rerencangan.
me: Kan bisa nge-sms Papa...
MB: Nya da benten atuh.

[inget banget kalo adik Rachma tuh pinter tapi malesnya gak ketulungan, jadilah nyeletuk...]

me: Kalo nilai rata-rata ujiannya lebih dari sekian koma sekian, baru dibeliin HP ... 3
MB: Meni pelit Teteh mah, HP oge aya syaratna.
me: Nya lamun teu satuju, teu kedah.
MB: Enya atuh enya, awas lamun bohong.
me: Eh, tambah satu lagi syaratna... ketawasetan
MB: Naon?
me: 12 ... passwordna mana...?
MB: Teteh bageur.
me: Sanes eta passwordna.
MB: Teteh geulis.
me: Kurang... nanana
MB: Teteh cantik, Teteh geulis, Teteh bageur.
me: Nggg.... masih kurang... nanana
MB: Naon deui atuh? Pan Ujang tos nyebatkeun passwordna. Teteh mah licik ah.
me: Nya wios alim mah, berarti gak jadi dapet HP... nanana

MB: Nya sok atuh, Ujang kedah nyarios naon passwordna?
me: Yeee, masa password ajah lupa. Kalo gitu gak jadi ajeh ah pangmeserkeunnana.
MB: Teteh geulis... udah, Teteh bageur ... udah, Teteh cantik... udah.
me: Terus? nanana
MB: Ooo, Ujang apal!
me: Naon?
MB: Teteh cantiiiiiiik, Teteh bageuuuur, Teteh geuliiiiis.
me: Hmm...

[mikir-mikir emang dulu Rachma beneran ngasi password kaya gitu yak? heuheuheu]

MB: Tuh, Ujang tos nyebatkeun passwordna, pokokna mah HP.
me: Kan Teteh teu acan meng-iya-kan... 28
MB: Ah, pokokna mah tos jadi.
me: Hmmm...
okeh, deal ha



Dan beberapa bulan lalu, akhirnya terdengar kabar bahwa Rachma harus menepati janji. You really have to be careful with what you have said mrgreen.

MB: Teteh, nilai ujian Ujang segini. Mana HPna? hoyong nokia N95.
me: Waks... maenya anak SMA maenannya N95. Cukup yang sejutaan aja atuh, meni ngagaya pisan. Teteh wae nembe gaduh HP pas kuliah.
MB: Nya da benten generasi atuh Teteh mah.
[dwiiing, ngerasa tua banget jadinya... 1 ]

me: Gini aja, Teteh ngasi budget sekian juta, terserah Ujang bade milih naon.
MB: Teteh mah kitu, cenah terserah Ujang hoyong tipe naon.
me: Ya tapi jangan N95 atuuuuh, ngabangkrutkeun eta maaaah... 24
MB: Dasar pelit.
me: Kalo gak mau ya gak usah... 13
MB: Enya atuh enya. Dasar pelit....
me: Eh, satu lagi, passwordna heula... nanana
MB: Teteh geulis, Teteh bageur, Teteh cantik. Tos ah sakali, bosen password wae.
me: Heheheheh. Ada satu tambahan syarat lagi.
MB: Teteh mah syaratna nambah wae, teu kaci ah.
me: Mau HPnya gak...? hmm
MB: Enya atuh enya, naon deui syaratna?
me: Kalo nilai semesterannya jelek, HPnya diambil lagi.
MB: Yeeee, naha kitu.
me: Ya terserah Ujang, pami satuju dipangmeserkeun, pami henteu... ya bye bye aja buat HPnya 13 .
MB: Enya ... enya... dasar pelit.
me: Lamun bilang pelit sakali deui, gak jadi dibeliin HP!!! marah1
MB: Enya atuh enya. Teteh bageuuuur...
me: mafia


Hihihih... dia mah emang lucu buat dijailin.... gyahahaha


3. iMac

Rachma putuskan, kompie rumah masa depan adalah dari generasinya iMac. Ya, kecuali kalo ada produk Mac yang lebih lucu, hehehe. Harga iMac berkisar 1000-1900 euro... menguras kantong emang.


4. TV plasma

Kalo membahas TV Plasma, Pioneer Kuro menempati urutan pertama, tapi tentu sajah harganya juga ikutan mahal razz. Harga medium untuk barang bagus adalah sekitar 1500 dollar untuk Samsung PN50A550. Lagian ini teh punya rumahnya juga kapan ... heuheuheu, mungkin pas dah punya rumah dah keluar lagi model TV yang lebih slim.


5. Rumah

Pengen punya rumaaaaah aww .... Waktu nelpon orang rumah, Rachma dah sempet bilang, pengen beli rumah, dan udah minta tolong cariin info KPRnya. Tapi setelah dipikir-pikir lagi... hmm... belum tau juga ntar teh emang mu kerja di mana, mu tinggal di mana ,,, heuheuheu. Lagian... ntar teh kan meureun mesti ikut suami yak, harusnya calon suami yang mikirin rumah mah, hehehe. Jadi ini mah meureun wish list jangka panjaaaaang, ntah kapan razz.


6. Kendaraan

Ntah kapan kepikiran untuk nyetir sendiri, soalnya belum bisa nyetir, udah gitu kurang ahli baca peta, hehehe. Tapi kan ini mah namanya juga berkhayal, jadi pan bebas milih, hihihih. Bicara tentang mobil, yang kelintas adalah beberapa merk kaya Mercedes-Benz, BMW, Audi, Volvo, Lexus, Honda, dan banyak lagi. Rachma bukan ahli otomotif, jadi sebenernya kurang tau pengen mobil kayak pegimane. Yang pasti, pertama tuh mobil harus lucu [lucu versi Rachma mrgreen], dan masuk budget. Untuk harga yang sedikit di atas medium, maka incaran jatuh pada MB E320, Volvo S80, BMW 5 series, Audi S5, Lexus IS350, dan sejenisnya....

Hihihihi, memang, ngayal itu bisa sekenanya ajeh... 3



Ngayal boleh, tapi tetep harus realistis... mrgreen. Mari mengingat kembali Matematika dan Ekonomi.... yuk yak yuuuk....


belajar


1. Mengelola salary

Penggunaan uang per bulan Rachma kira-kira seperti ini:
- Kebutuhan pokok: housing, asuransi, pangan --> 22-25%
- Kebutuhan lain: belanja, jalan-jalan, ya pokokna mah hoby-related --> 6-12%
- Tabungan: ya sisanya, hehe --> 63-72%


2. Mengelola tabungan

Rachma sebetulnya bukan orang yang senang menyimpan uang lama-lama di bank. Alasannya, simpel... kalo terlalu lama di bank, yang untung banknya kartukuning . Rachma lebih suka kalo uang Rachma berputar biar banyak manfaat buat semua, ato ditransform jadi properti yang valuenya naik sejalan dengan waktu mrgreen. Di tabungan cukup ada uang dua bulan gaji, sisanya... diinvestasikan ... wink.


Alasan mengapa uang berputar jauh lebih berprospek daripada uang yang diem di bank... ya... soalnya uang berputar itu akan menghasilkan uang lagi, hihihihih semangat ,,, jauh lebih besar daripada bunga bank yang ... bukannya udah ada fatwa MUI negasin gak boleh ya?


Prinsip Rachma tentang uang... "uang itu bukan untuk disimpan, tapi untuk DIBERDAYAKAN". Dan ingat prinsip "it's not about something you have, but it's about how you use it". Jadi, permasalahannya bukan terletak pada seberapa banyak uang yang dimiliki, tapi lebih ke pintar-pintarnya memberdayakan si uang tadi. Kalo mu invest juga mesti banyak mikirnya ketang, dan harus tepat guna. Misal kalo mu invest di jewelry, invest dalam bentuk emas lebih berprospek dibanding invest dalam bentuk berlian. Belum lagi kalo beneran invest di dynamic business, mesti ngitung untung rugi, ngitung return value, pokokna mah nginget-nginget ilmu ekonomi we lah 35 .


3. Prinsip cepet kaya: banyak beramal, banyak infaq, banyak shodaqah

Don't be so greedy about money...
moal dicandak ka akherat...moal... jadi nyantai we atuh, ocreh gongxi1 .


Sasaran beramal, seperti layaknya atom, dari center dulu, alias diri sendiri dulu. Berhemat itu boleh, tapi jangan sampai mendholimi diri sendiri. Tetep aja makan harus proper, refreshing sekali-kali mah boleh, mu rutin juga gak dosa kok daripada sutres teu jelas. Punya penghasilan itu harus ada "hasilnya", dan yang pertama itu "kebahagiaan pribadi", kecuali kalo orangnya masochist, yang bahagia kalo menderita, eta mah lain cerita. Aura bahagianya seseorang biasanya mancar, bisa dirasain.


Jalur selanjutnya adalah keluarga inti: suami/istri, anak. Tapi berhubung Rachma mah pan masih single, jadi nuclear family nya masih Ayah, Ibu, adik. Kagak ada Aa ya, maaf, situ masih orang asing, hihihihi kaya yang bener aja bisa nganggap orang asing, heuheu cool . Oya, sering ditanya, nu dimaksud Aa di postingan Rachma teh saha, Rachma jawabnya ... meneketehe razz.


Track selanjutnya meluas ke Nenek, Ua, Paman, Bibi, dan seterusnya.... Pleus jangan lupa, "sebaik-baik manusia adalah yang banyak manfaat bagi manusia lainnya", jadi jangan lupa untuk beramal ke tetangga, mesjid, sekolah, dan sejenisnya. Kan di PPKn juga disebutin alasan kenapa kepentingan umum harus didahulukan di atas kepentingan pribadi, karena kepentingan umum itu udah meng-cover kepentingan pribadi juga wink. Nabung amal sekalian nyambung tali silaturahmi. Biar barokah hartanya. Ngapain banyak harta tapi gak barokah, nambah riweh aja ntar di yaumul hisab jadi nambah-nambah hisaban... puyeng .


Jadi kalo dikalkulasikan... dengan meng-exclude rumah... [pan rumah mah (calon) suami yang mikirin, hihihih] ... wish list tadi itu affordable... yippie
... horeeee... cheerleader


Bisa ditingkatkan jangkauan kualitas barangnya, kalo investasinya berjalan lancar. Jadi Rachma mesti mikir...mikir... investasi dengan risk gak begitu besar, dan manfaatnya dirasakan banyak orang... hmm.. hmm... naon nya? bingung


Sejauh ini, baru Rachma berdayakan di benda mati [halah, apa coba? razz], yang itu mah bisa dibilang emang gak ada resikonya, dengan value yang sudah pasti naik sejalan dengan waktu, hehehe. Kemaren sempet ngobrol-ngobrol sama Mama, ada rencana bisnis, modalna 50 jutaan, haiyah... oow iyeu mah kudu dipikir bener-bener... mana Rachma teh kan bekronnya kimia mrgreen, jadi kalo dalam mengelola uang, insting yang mesti bekerja, heuheu. Rachma mu mempelajari dulu basic platformnya teh kumaha. Tetep semangattt !!! 6



Dah ah, ngalamunnya segitu dulu, ngantuk depan kompie terus.... capek


Eh..eh, sebelum signing off, Rachma mu ngutip quote lucu dari novel Thousand Splendid Suns, "tell your secret to the wind, but don't blame it for telling the tree". Nah, yang kepikiran sama Rachma adalah: tell your secret to cyber world, but don't blame Google for stalking it.

Hahahaha ... stalker... anybody? nanana
Soalnya ada temen yang komen, taarufan sama Rachma mah gak perlu pake CV, cukup satu link....
and now I'm thinking about it... oow

it could be true... 15


Eh tapi, ngg... hayah... sebodo amat ah, kalo mu baca mah baca we, mangga baca... baca... kaya Rachma mu peduli aja.... keki


Apapun yang terjadi, sayah mah selalu hepi.... 16


Mari kita sambut Ramadhan dengan penuh ceriaaaa....


4 ~~~~~~~~~~~marhaban ya Ramadhan~~~~~~~~~~~ 5

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